Friday, 30 August 2013

Interpersonal Conflict


One of the part time jobs I had done before matriculating into NUS was to work at a call centre for XYZ government agency. Many times the work was emotionally draining, partly due to the large volume of calls and partly because of long call time with extremely annoying customers.

As our call centre was underperforming, there was a change in management to troubleshoot the team’s performance. Under the new management, it was required that all agents, regardless of part timers or full time stuff were to answer a certain number of calls per hour.

While I was consistently meeting the quota, there was one day that I had to deal with multiple long call time with quite demanding customers. This caused me to fail to hit the minimum quota for that particular day. As a result the new manager chided/lectured me over my poor performance at the end of my shift.

Feeling emotionally drained after my shift, I shot back at the manager challenging him to fire me since he claimed that I was under performing. While I was not fired, needless to say for the rest of my employment term, I was given the cold turkey treatment by the manager.

In retrospect, I could have easily communicated the reason for my poor performance instead of assuming that the new manager knew about it. I believe the reason why I was confrontational that day was because I may have misinterpreted my manager’s comments. What the manager could have meant was that I should improve on my performance, yet after a tiring day, I let my emotions take over and misinterpreted his comments that I was too incompetent and therefore I should resign from the call centre.

When I related this act of ‘bravado’ to a close colleague of mine, he simply couldn't believe that I was foolish enough to pull off such a stunt. This was because no one would benefit from having such a confrontational attitude especially when it comes to career advancement. Instead, he advised that in situation whenever a superior is pointing out certain errors, the best course of action is to apologise immediately and offer a brief explanation for the error followed by a promise not to repeat it again.

Needless to say, I learnt a huge lesson from this incident. Not only would I need to be more aware of my emotions in order to communicate my message effectively but also by placing aside my ego would I be in a better position to diffuse conflicts as it arises.


So do you agree with my colleague’s approach in dealing with such situation and what other approach do you think I should have taken? More importantly, what kind of approach do you think I should have taken in diffusing the cold turkey treatment from the boss?